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Question: I really need "dating tips, advice, anything you know or have experience with!?

(Posted by: Hannah on 2010-07-10 19:33:49)

Okay so i like this guy, and he recently told me that he likes me too and wants to hang out, but the only problem is that he is really shy and i know that i am going to have to suggest to do something first! well i figured we could go to the movies or something, because it might not be as awkward, but i really am not good at thinking of things to talk about and am really scared to do this. i have so many thoughts and doubts. "what if he doesnt't like me? or what if he doesnt like my personality? what if i am boring? what if he thinks that i am awkward, or shy, or decidedes he doesn't like me anymore? " ( ive known him since 1st grade, but we went to different middle schools, but recently started talking to him again) but anyways, i am really scared, because i have never gone on a "date " before, how does it generally work? what do you usually do? ANY HELP OR ADVICE PLEASE, PLEASE SHARE!!! thanks

Posted by: d3molition.lov3r on 2010-07-10, 19:40:35

Discuss with him what he'd like to do instead of just telling him "we're going to the movies. " If he doesn't really make up his mind, THAT'S when you make it up for him. If it turns out awkward and he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world. The same thing happened to me, and I just moved on because clearly we were incompatible. Whatever you do, don't take it to heart. Then again, it could go amazing. Just don't worry about what he thinks and be yourself (cliche, I know, but it works!)

Posted by: connor m on 2010-07-10, 19:38:26

Dont awste your time dating is stupid

Posted by: Allison on 2010-07-10, 19:38:28

I would recommend seeing a movie and then going to get dinner afterwards. If anything, you at least have the movie to talk about.

Posted by: kristie on 2010-07-10, 19:38:45

I know it may sound corny... but honestly just be yourself. it'll work out... answers.yahoo.com/ question/ index;_ylt= AowNZKMIyyl0HhWgELmIvHDsy6IX;_ylv= 3?qid= 20100710172044AAYkycv help please!

Posted by: wussssup on 2010-07-10, 19:39:18

Let me tell ya this, BE YOURSELF. how are you with your friends? well, act that way. dont act like 'omg if i mess this up ill never get a husband' cus its not true. im myself around guys and it works miricles. 1st couple dates you should go to bowling or a movie Then after..... you should go to the park and bring pizza or somthing and hang out ect, ect, ect.

Posted by: Scared to Love on 2010-07-10, 19:40:05

If he is shy just start out with something like a movie, don't worry just have fun! dating is supposed to be about getting to know each other so just go have a good time and don't worry about the what ifs!

Posted by: jimmymatthews3 on 2010-07-10, 19:40:58

Yeah let this be the only advice you listen to girl. BE YOURSELF! thats the most important thing. if a guy doesnt like you for who you are fu$% it you know wat i mean. i used to be this gentlemen guy you know the perfect guy. i can be that guy i just dont like pretending to be perfect all the time. because noone is. you have to find someone who is gonna like you for who you are or you will never truly be happy i promise you that. and as far as the guy being shy just talk and try to make him laugh. if both people are shy it really isnt that good cuz it doesnt really make thing easier lol. so like i said be yourself and just talk it doesnt have to be about anything important i can talk to my girlfriend about watching youtube and she will laugh just relax and talk. and dont go to the movies that is such a bad date. plus yall r just gonna be quiet there neways not helping lol. try playing a game or somthing to break the ice.

Posted by: Dylan on 2010-07-10, 19:42:09

Usually you don't do much talking at a movie its a rather lame way of getting to know someone why don't you go miniature golfing or go to an amusement park together or the beach can you imagine doing less talking than at a movie there is the library- don't go there to prove my point you want to do something social and highly interactive the only convo you have on a movie date is exchanging your opinions on the movie you saw together it's a good ice breaker and it gives you both something in common to talk about but othjer than that a movie doesn't offer either of you a chance to get to know each other

Posted by: soccer girl on 2010-07-10, 19:43:49

Okay to start off just be yourself .. dont try to act cool or anything talk about your interests...his interests ... just try to get to know each other if hes shy try to get him to talk more .. ask stuff about "him "... guys like to talk about themselves as much as girls do ... during the movie.. i guess if your brave enough u could try and make a move ( like resting your head on his sholder) since hes shy ..... besides if he likes u .. im 100% sure he'll luv it GOOD LUCK .. HAVE FUN ON YOUR DATE :p :) :D !!