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Question: So any dating tips for a girl who has had bad relationships?

(Posted by: salad-fingers210 on 2010-06-16 23:39:52)

Don't get me wrong, im very people friendly and outgoing and don't have problems going on dates, its the guys i go on dates with that's the problem. Im an 18 year old girl, going to college for art and very spunky, I don't know why but i ALWAYS end up dating the same kind of guy even though i don't want to. They seem to be great at the beginning and then they start getting needy, controlling, and abusive. I don't know why these men seem to attract me or what signs i need to look out for. My girl friends assure me that all men are not like this but due to my past relationships now i have trouble trusting guys and its hard for me to actually want to go on dates and guys think im being mean i guess but i dont know i cant help, i want to still seem like a friendly person. What signs do you think i can look for or not be so gaurded? Or any advice? I am not desperate for a boyfriend at all i just would like to not get myself in a bad situation again.

Posted by: Love Doc on 2010-06-16, 23:49:39

If it is happening regularly then there is problem in your attitude change your attitude

Posted by: Laura on 2010-06-16, 23:56:58

Been there, done that, was cured! :) My cure: on the first date during the conversation and laughter I always make a point of fitting in "I could never be with a jealous and needy guy! Most of my past relationships ended because of it ". That sets a line for him, if he is serious about you. In fact, my boyfriend is afraid to show his jealousy. I know why. I respect it. Hope this helps.. ;) .. good luck!! :)